Day 1 - Fast & Pray for Freedom from Generational Cycles

Most spouses enter this challenge feeling exhausted, confused, and stuck in patterns that keep repeating no matter how hard they pray, communicate, or try to “do the right thing.”

On Day 1, we address why—uncovering how generational cycles, learned behaviors, and soul-level patterns quietly shape thoughts, reactions, and decisions in marriage.

Through fasting and guided prayer, you’ll gain clarity around what’s been governing your inner life, break agreement with patterns like confusion, emotional distance, and destructive communication, and begin restoring spiritual clarity. This day lays the foundation for healing by helping you confront the root, not just manage the symptoms, so real breakthrough can begin.

Day 2 - Fast & Pray Against Unforgivenness

Unforgiveness is an agreement to stay bound to what broke the marriage. It is the refusal to release an offense ("to forgive but not forget"), the decision to remain tied to offense, and one of the primary ways division maintains legal access in a home.

On Day 2, we confront how unforgiveness keeps marriages fragmented, hearts guarded, and families stuck in cycles that never heal. Through fasting and prayer, we break agreement with division, release what we have been holding onto, and close the door on bitterness that has been passed down and normalized.

This day is about obedience, alignment, and establishing a marriage that is no longer "governed by offense," but by the peace and authority of Christ.

Day 3 - Fast & Pray for Full Deliverance & Inner Healing

Awareness without freedom only creates more chaos.

We can't just change the behavior, schedules and rhythms in the home and hope for the best.

On Day 3, we move beyond recognition and repentance and contend for deliverance and inner healing—this means we have to stand and face the authority that is establishing that chaos in our life and in our marriage.

This is the day many spouses realize they don’t just need faith, they need to actively come out of agreement and renounce things in their mind, will and emotions.

Day 4 - Fast & Pray to Expose Open Doors to the Enemy

On Day 4, we confront how the enemy maintains influence in marriages through what the Bible describes as "topos"—this is territory, access or legal ground.

He gains access through a marriage that lacks the fear of God.

Through fasting and targeted prayer, we ask the Holy Spirit to expose what has been operating in the shadows and revoke every legal right that has been given access to the marriage.

If we are going to bring things to the "stand" in our marriage, the verdict needs to be the blood of Jesus, because the blood of Jesus covers all and didn't miss anything.

Day 5 - Fast & Pray for Unity, Restoration & True Breakthrough

Restoration is not a return to the old version of the marriage—it is the establishment of a new one built on truth, order, and covenant alignment.

This is what the Bible describes as the "new garment."

On Day 5, we pray into unity, restoration, and breakthrough by realigning the marriage with God’s promises, vision, provision, and design for roles and responsibility.

This final day is about sealing the work God has begun—moving forward with renewed vision, restored unity, and a firm foundation so the marriage can grow, stand, and bear fruit in the way it was always designed to.