FREE 5-DAY CHALLENGE
God is doing a new thing in your marriage and it starts with prayer.
We are Derek and Jordan Palizay, creators of EstablishedFamily.com, a training and education platform dedicated to helping families discover, align with, and establish their unique God-given design.
With 13 years of marriage, five children, and a journey shaped by both challenges and victories, we’ve come to understand a critical truth: many families and marriages struggle not just with brokenness, but with the tools and vision to build something greater. They lack the know-how to assert authority, exercise dominion, and cultivate a multi-generational legacy rooted in Christ Jesus.
Together with our children—Jayla, Jaiden, Jemma, Julian, and Journi—we’re living out the mission of becoming an Established Family, built on God’s principles and committed to inspiring, guiding, and equipping other families to do the same.
Why We’re Hosting the 5-Day Pray Over Your Marriage Challenge
Marriage is the cornerstone of a thriving family. Yet we’ve seen countless couples stuck in cycles of dysfunction, frustration, and spiritual exhaustion, crying out for answers but unsure of where to turn.
That’s why we created the 5-Day Pray Over Your Marriage Challenge. After facing our own battles—financial hardship, betrayal, addictions, and spiritual deception—we’ve experienced firsthand the power of surrendering our marriages to God. This challenge is designed to help couples do the same by:
Teaching how to pray with authority: Going beyond surface-level prayers to address deep spiritual strongholds.
Restoring God’s design for marriage: Breaking free from the lies of the enemy and walking in covenant unity.
Awakening the urgency for change: Encouraging couples to stop waiting and take the next step toward healing and restoration.
We’re not just coaches or educators—we’re a family on a mission. Everything we’ve built with Established Family, including the Marriage Revival Hub, our coaching programs, and resources like this challenge, is born out of our calling to help other Kingdom families thrive in every area of life.
If God can rebuild our marriage and family, He can do it for you too. Let’s start building something that lasts.
DEREK & JORDAN PALIZAY
CO-FOUNDERS, ESTABLISHED FAMILY
WHO IS HOSTING THIS?
A COMMUNITY OF PRAYER
God is ready to move on behalf of your marriage.
Day 1—Prayer for Sudden Breakthrough
Breakthrough begins in the spirit. Pray with boldness and authority, asking God to shatter hardened hearts, remove spiritual blockages, and restore movement in your marriage.
Day 2—Prayer Against Resentment & Bitterness
Let go of the poison that hardens hearts and fuels division. Pray for emotional release and spiritual freedom as you forgive and heal.
Day 3— Healing from Double Mindedness and Wavering Faith
Eliminate instability and division by confronting spiritual double-mindedness. Pray for unity, clarity, and alignment with God’s will for your marriage.
Day 4—Restoration of God's Design for Your Marriage
Return your marriage to its original design—a covenant rooted in unity, purpose, and God’s glory. Pray for healing, trust, and alignment with His Word.
Day 5—Protection and Growth Over Your Marriage
Guard your marriage against spiritual attacks while inviting God to cultivate lasting growth. Pray for a flourishing, fruitful covenant that reflects His kingdom.
How Does the 5-Day Pray Over Your Marriage Challenge Work?
Register for the challenge and grab your workbook.
Day 1 will be in your inbox first thing tomorrow morning.
Pray and study on core areas God is shifting in your marriage.
Join thousands of other spouses contending for restoration and growth.
How Does the 5-Day Pray Over Your Marriage Challenge Work?
Register for the challenge and grab your workbook.
Day 1 will be in your inbox first thing tomorrow morning.
Pray and study on core areas God is shifting in your marriage.
Join thousands of other spouses contending for restoration and growth.
We start prayer in:
Cover your marriage and advance in your restoration going into the new year. The best is yet to come.
I have been praying these prayers for my spouse the past week. I believe God led me to your family in my desperation to change myself and save my marriage even after my husband has asked for a divorce. I know the only way to restoration is through prayer. I’m believing for my future. I know it will not be easy. Thank you for listening to God. — Ashley
This fight is not over, but I’m thanking God for small victories. I can see his heart beginning to shift and not just toward me, but more importantly toward God. I see how my prayers and desires are changing. It’s not just about restoration of my marriage. I’m learning to put God on the throne of my heart and love my husband and pray for him as a son of God instead of whining about what he doesn’t give me. I am hearing God so much more clearly as I press in to fight in prayer rather than staying stuck in my sorrow. — Tosha
See you on Day 1
Here's a quick video from us so you know exactly what to expect.
Here's a quick video from us so you know exactly what to expect.